Comments on: Lola Cartselos Pabian

By: Mike LaGrasta

Mike LaGrasta — Sun, 27 Sep 2026 03:45:23 +0000

My dearest Lola, may God bless you, your children and your family. I am deeply overwhelmed by your passing. I met Lola 37 years ago at NYU. We were only 19 at the time. I can never forget the warmth and love in your heart you shared with everyone you came across. You had a gift of knowing how to make others smile, laugh and open up to you. No matter the time or day, you always knew how to brighten our spirits. People instantly gravitated to you. My soul is sad but in my heart, I know you are a direct angel of God. I will never forget you and all the great times we had. Rest in peace Lola. Se agapó pánta!
Σε αγαπώ πάντα!

By: sophie cartselos

sophie cartselos — Thu, 03 Sep 2026 12:37:30 +0000

In reply to John Cartselos. Lola was a beautiful human being, both inside and out. She was a wonderful Mom and really enjoyed her quiet, simple life in Nebraska. John, you are correct in saying death leaves a heartache nobody can heal...

By: John Cartselos

John Cartselos — Fri, 21 Aug 2026 20:42:24 +0000

Though distance can often be the reason that families drift apart, the news of the passing of cousin Lola still causes pain. I last spoke with Lola at her brother Charlie’s wake and was honestly impressed what a sharp mind she had. A genius. My condolences to her children, Jason and Jacob, Aunt Elpiniki, cousins Sophie and George and their families. Death leaves a heartache nobody can heal. Love leaves a memory nobody can steal.

By: Janis moore

Janis moore — Wed, 19 Aug 2026 15:11:14 +0000

She was a Beautiful woman I met her when she was very young I worked with her at king kullin where I met her she had the best personality and such a big heart I loved her right away may God Rest her sweet Soul you will always be remembered by so many for her loving heart.God Bless her children and family 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Fly 🕊️🕊️🕊️ High Beautiful Lady 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞🕊️🕊️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

By: Sue Oliver

Sue Oliver — Tue, 18 Aug 2026 22:01:21 +0000

I had the honor of working at the same school with Lola and readily agree that she loved kids, gave her all to her work as a paraeducator and was a dependable team player as she served. She was a woman of high integrity and a real credit to her family and friends and all the students who came in and out of her life during her LPS years. She was a loyal friend through thick and thin! Her kindness and her refusal to be involved in any work gossip made her a shining star as a co-worker. She will be missed.

By: Anita Jones

Anita Jones — Tue, 18 Aug 2026 14:15:47 +0000

Lola worked with my two grandsons at Stride Autism Center. They loved her so much and enjoyed their time with her. She was such an amazing person and she will be missed dearly!

By: Kat

Kat — Tue, 18 Aug 2026 13:38:49 +0000

I worked with Lola at Stride. She was always so loving to all the kiddos and made each day fun and engaging. She was always so happy and such a great friend. She will be deeply missed and my thoughts and prayers are with her family as they go through this difficult time.

By: Tony Pelan

Tony Pelan — Tue, 18 Aug 2026 03:00:32 +0000

In reply to DEBRA KELLMAN. Lola was a very special kind of person. She was a loving mother and a friend to many. The infectious laugh and warm smile will be forever etched in many minds. Such a tragic loss.

By: Lexie Langenhorst

Lexie Langenhorst — Tue, 18 Aug 2026 01:59:13 +0000

Lola was a valued member of the Stride team for a little over a year, and during that time, she brought so much joy, dedication, and heart to the clients she served. She showed up every day ready to give her best and was always someone her clients could count on. As an RBT and coworker, Lola was delightful to work alongside and had a special way of making each client feel seen and supported.

One of the things that made Lola so special was the fun and creativity she brought into her sessions. She loved creating unique songs straight from the heart for her clients, turning everyday moments into something fun and memorable. Her energy and genuine love for the work brought smiles to everyone around her. Lola truly cared about the impact she was making in the lives of the children she worked with, and that passion was evident in everything she did.

Her presence at Stride made a lasting impact—not only on her clients and their families, but also on the coworkers who had the privilege of working alongside her. Lola will be remembered for her kindness, creativity, dedication, and the joy she brought to Stride every day.

By: Nicolle Mahoney-Evans

Nicolle Mahoney-Evans — Mon, 17 Aug 2026 23:09:16 +0000

Lola was an amazing woman and will be missed by so many of us who were fortunate enough to have known her. Every time we met, she greeted me with a big hug and welcoming smile. Her laughter was infectious (and loud) and could lighten the mood in any room. She loved her friends and family, especially her beautiful children, so deeply and unconditionally and never missed an opportunity to say something very nice (and usually very funny) to anyone within ear’s shot. She made everyone around her smile, because her kindness was undeniable and I feel very blessed to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.