Wyuka Funeral Home & Cemetery https://www.wyuka.com/ A Place of Rest Tue, 29 Apr 2025 20:24:20 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8 https://www.wyuka.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/favicon.png Wyuka Funeral Home & Cemetery https://www.wyuka.com/ 32 32 Lee Hansen https://www.wyuka.com/13424-2/ https://www.wyuka.com/13424-2/#comments Sat, 26 Apr 2025 16:32:07 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13424 Lee Hansen of Lincoln passed away peacefully in his sleep on Easter Sunday, April 20, 2025. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather and friend to many. Lee was born on March 18, 1951, in Sioux City Iowa to parents John and Lorraine Hansen and raised in Sioux City Nebraska with his brother and sister, […]

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Lee Hansen of Lincoln passed away peacefully in his sleep on Easter Sunday, April 20, 2025. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather and friend to many. Lee was born on March 18, 1951, in Sioux City Iowa to parents John and Lorraine Hansen and raised in Sioux City Nebraska with his brother and sister, David and Joanne.

He married Myrta Ruth Arnold on January 17th of 1970 in Lincoln where they made their home and raised their two sons, Daniel and John. After nearly 40 years together Myrta passed from cancer, just as a new family chapter had begun. Grandchildren…beautiful, active grandchildren.

It wasn’t long and there were four grandkids, three little boys and one little girl who completely changed his life and became his new priority. After 45 years of dedicated service with the State of Nebraska as a computer programmer and IT specialist he retired and became a full-time Grandpa to Caleb, Blake, Jude and Zach. His “home away from home” became ball fields, gymnasiums and auditoriums. There were school programs, T-ball, baseball, softball, soccer, flag football, basketball and gymnastics. Lee missed very few activities and made sure he had the right equipment to photograph and record it all, whether it was local or out of state, inside or outside, rain or shine, he had it covered. As the kids got older, he would take them on weekend trips to Adventure-land or Lake Okoboji. These were some of his favorite outings and another chance to spoil his grandkids.

When there were no “kid activities” on his schedule he kept busy with disc golf (20 yrs), racquetball (50+ yrs), pickle-ball (10+ yrs), bicycling (25+ yrs) and riding his motorcycle and scooter. He watched Caleb and Blake graduated from High School and Caleb graduated from UNL. He’s watched as Jude and Zach continued to grow revisiting many of the same haunts he had with Caleb and Blake. The Children’s Museum, Morrill Hall and the Children’s Zoo, always smiling and enjoying the moment.

Lee is survived: by his sons Daniel (Katie) Hansen, John (Casie Pruss) Hansen of Lincoln, Ne: brother David Hansen of Havelock, IA: Grandchildren Caleb, Blake, Jude, Zachary, 3 Nephews and several grand Nephews and Nieces.

Lee was proceeded in death by his wife Myrta Hansen, parents John & Lorraine Hansen and sister Joanne Lewis.

The celebration of his life will be 2:00 p.m. Sunday, May 4, at Wyuka Funeral Home, Lincoln. Memorials to the Lincoln Children Museum.

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NOTICE MEETING OF WYUKA BOARD OF TRUSTEES https://www.wyuka.com/notice-meeting-of-wyuka-board-of-trustees-8/ https://www.wyuka.com/notice-meeting-of-wyuka-board-of-trustees-8/#respond Thu, 24 Apr 2025 13:47:11 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13415 Notice is hereby given that a meeting of the Wyuka Board of Trustees will take place on Wednesday, April 30, 2025, 3:30 p.m. at Wyuka, 3600 O Street, Lincoln Nebraska in the Funeral Home Garden Room. NOTICE AND AGENDA OF QUARTERLY MEETING WYUKA BOARD OF TRUSTEES April 30 2025 Revision 042925

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Notice is hereby given that a meeting of the Wyuka Board of Trustees will take place on Wednesday, April 30, 2025, 3:30 p.m. at Wyuka, 3600 O Street, Lincoln Nebraska in the Funeral Home Garden Room.

NOTICE AND AGENDA OF QUARTERLY MEETING WYUKA BOARD OF TRUSTEES April 30 2025 Revision 042925

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Leslie “Les” John Helms (Papa) https://www.wyuka.com/leslie-les-john-helms/ https://www.wyuka.com/leslie-les-john-helms/#comments Tue, 22 Apr 2025 18:29:20 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13413 Leslie “Les” John Helms (Papa), 73, of Lincoln, NE, went to be with the Lord April 22, 2025. He was born on July 6, 1951, to Lawrence and Deede Helms. Les grew up in the College View area. He went to Southeast High School in ’69. Received an associate’s degree from SCC for computers. Les […]

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Leslie “Les” John Helms (Papa), 73, of Lincoln, NE, went to be with the Lord April 22, 2025. He was born on July 6, 1951, to Lawrence and Deede Helms.

Les grew up in the College View area. He went to Southeast High School in ’69. Received an associate’s degree from SCC for computers. Les worked most of his young life as a plumber for Trendway Plumbing and Trainor Plumbing. In 1985, he went to work for Star Tran and was the President of Union 1293 bus company for many years before retiring in 2000.

Les and Lana met at Eagle Raceway in 1969. They married July 13, 1971, where they had two children Tammy and Brian Helms. Papa enjoyed collecting anything Budweiser, steins was his best. He also enjoyed dirt track racing. Papa and Mama spent many years around the dirt track racing. Les and Lana renewed their wedding vows in 2021, at their 50th anniversary. They spent a wonderful 53 years together.

Les is survived by his wife, Lana Helms; children, Tammy Helms and Brian Helms and significant other, Angie Frain; grandchildren, Gabrielle (Doug) Helms Merrick, Trever Helms and fiancé Deanna Allen, Tyler Helms and fiancé Shelby Coil, and Brea Helms; one great grandson, Tatum Lee; two sisters, Kathleen Oltman, and Nancy (Fred) Schoneweis; numerous cousins, other family members, and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents; grandmother, Margaret Helms; mother-in-law, Donna Robinson; father-in-law, Harvey Robinson; brother-in-law, Alan Robinson; uncle, Leo Kunkel; and other aunts, uncles, and special friends.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 11:30 AM, Friday, May 2, 2025, at Wyuka Funeral Home, 3600 “O” Street, Lincoln, NE 68510. Reception to follow.

Memorials may be donated to the family for future designation.

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Sue Ann Busing https://www.wyuka.com/sue-ann-busing/ https://www.wyuka.com/sue-ann-busing/#comments Mon, 21 Apr 2025 19:39:04 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13393 Sue Ann Busing (Ozenbaugh) was born August 6, 1948 in Lincoln, NE and entered into eternal rest on December 6, 2024 in Lincoln, NE.  She is survived by her brother Robert and his wife Pam of Montgomery, TX,  two grandchildren Rexton and Avery of Barneston, Nebraska, two nephews Brian Ozenbaugh and his wife Jenny of […]

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Sue Ann Busing (Ozenbaugh) was born August 6, 1948 in Lincoln, NE and entered into eternal rest on December 6, 2024 in Lincoln, NE.  She is survived by her brother Robert and his wife Pam of Montgomery, TX,  two grandchildren Rexton and Avery of Barneston, Nebraska, two nephews Brian Ozenbaugh and his wife Jenny of Highlands Ranch, CO and Brent Ozenbaugh and his wife Blair of Houston, TX and their 3 children Kento, Kaito and Hana.  She was preceded in death by her son Joseph Dean Busing, longtime friend Doug Walls, and her parents Robert and Lola Ozenbaugh.

She graduated from Lincoln High School in 1966 and attended Nebraska Wesleyan from 1966-1968.  She had 18 years of service with the Nebraska Game and Parks Commission.  Following that she spent many happy years of involvement with VFW #131 in Lincoln (serving as President from 2007-2008).   She enjoyed hunting, fishing, golfing and traveling.  Graveside services will be held on Saturday, May 3, 2025, at 10:30 am at Wyuka Cemetery (3600 “O” St in Lincoln, NE.  We will gather after the service for a light snack in the Garden Room at Wyuka Funeral Home.

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The Evolution of Funeral Services: Past, Present, and Future https://www.wyuka.com/the-evolution-of-funeral-services-past-present-and-future/ https://www.wyuka.com/the-evolution-of-funeral-services-past-present-and-future/#respond Fri, 18 Apr 2025 21:16:55 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13409 Funeral services have long been a way for families and communities to say goodbye to loved ones, honor their memory, and find solace during times of loss. Over time, both practices and philosophies surrounding funerals have evolved, reflecting cultural shifts, technological advancements, and diverse personal preferences. By understanding how funeral services have changed through the […]

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Funeral services have long been a way for families and communities to say goodbye to loved ones, honor their memory, and find solace during times of loss. Over time, both practices and philosophies surrounding funerals have evolved, reflecting cultural shifts, technological advancements, and diverse personal preferences. By understanding how funeral services have changed through the years—and what the future holds—we can appreciate the value of honoring a life well-lived in the most meaningful way possible. 

Funeral Services in the Past 

Historically, funerals were deeply rooted in religious customs and traditions. The process often revolved around ritualistic ceremonies, preparing the body for burial, and gathering at places of worship. Funeral homes emerged in the 19th century as families began seeking professional assistance to plan and conduct these ceremonies. 

The emphasis during this period was on traditional burial services, characterized by ornate caskets, graveside rituals, and memorials. These gatherings often carried a distinct cultural significance, serving as a way to unite families and communities in shared mourning. 

However, there were limited options for personalization—funerals generally followed a standardized template. This approach reflected the societal norms of the time, which valued tradition and formalities over individualization. 

Modern Funeral Services 

Today, funeral services are shaped by a desire for personalization and flexibility. Families are increasingly drawn to arrangements that celebrate the unique life and personality of their loved ones. 

Key Changes in Current Practices:

  • Personalized Memorial Services 

 While traditional services remain a choice for many, others prefer more personalized memorial services. These can include video tributes, favorite music, cherished photographs, and unique themes centered around the deceased’s passions, such as gardening, sports, or art. 

  • Cremation Options 

 The demand for cremation options has grown significantly in recent years. Families now have the choice of scattering ashes in meaningful locations, storing them in beautifully crafted urns, or even incorporating them into keepsakes like jewelry. 

  • Green Funerals 

 Environmental concerns have inspired the rise of eco-friendly, “green” funerals. These services focus on sustainable practices, such as biodegradable caskets and natural burials, allowing families to honor their loved ones while respecting the planet. 

  • Virtual and Hybrid Services 

 Technology has transformed how we connect and mourn, especially in recent years. Families can now include virtual guests in memorial services, allowing friends and relatives from around the world to participate in the celebration of life. 

  • Pre-Planning Services 

 To ease the emotional and financial burden on loved ones, more people are choosing to pre-plan their funerals. Services like those offered at Wyuka Funeral Home allow individuals to make arrangements in advance, ensuring that their wishes are honored and providing peace of mind to their families. 

The Future of Funeral Services 

Looking ahead, innovation and personalization will continue to drive changes in funeral services. Here are a few trends shaping the future of this industry:

  1. Advanced Technology   

  Virtual reality tributes, holographic displays, and AI-driven memorials might become more common, offering immersive and interactive ways to remember loved ones. 

  1. Comprehensive Grief Support 

  Recognizing the importance of grief healing, funeral homes are expanding their services to include counseling, support groups, and online grief resources. At Wyuka, for example, we are proud to offer compassionate grief support to help families through the most challenging times. 

  1. Biodegradable Products 

  Continued focus on sustainability will likely lead to more innovative products, like biodegradable urns that grow into trees or coral reef memorials that support marine ecosystems. 

  1. Cultural Diversity and Inclusion 

  As societies grow more diverse, funeral services will continue to adapt to the spiritual and cultural needs of different groups, ensuring all traditions are respected and celebrated. 

Honor Yesterday, Celebrate Today, Prepare for Tomorrow 

The evolution of funeral services reflects our changing world, where people seek meaningful ways to honor the past while embracing new possibilities. Whether it’s a traditional service, a personalized celebration of life, or an eco-friendly farewell, the common thread remains the same—memorial services provide comfort, healing, and connection during times of profound loss. 

At Wyuka Funeral Home & Cemetery, we’re here to guide you through every step of this process with compassion and respect. Whether you’re planning ahead or navigating a recent loss, our team is dedicated to making this experience as seamless and meaningful as possible. 

If you’d like to learn more about our services, including various cremation options, grief support, and pre-planning arrangements, visit us online at Wyuka.com or call us directly at 402-474-3600. Together, we can create a service as unique as the life being remembered.

 

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Glenn D. Hofer https://www.wyuka.com/glenn-d-hofer/ https://www.wyuka.com/glenn-d-hofer/#comments Mon, 14 Apr 2025 17:36:27 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13387 Glenn D. Hofer was called to his heavenly home on April 14, 2025, surrounded by his loving wife and daughter. Glenn was born November 23,1940, in Dolton, South Dakota to Samuel J and Sarah (Gross) Hofer. He and his family moved to Omaha, Nebraska early in his childhood, where he graduated from Omaha South High […]

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Glenn D. Hofer was called to his heavenly home on April 14, 2025, surrounded by his loving wife and daughter. Glenn was born November 23,1940, in Dolton, South Dakota to Samuel J and Sarah (Gross) Hofer. He and his family moved to Omaha, Nebraska early in his childhood, where he graduated from Omaha South High School. He attended the University of Nebraska-Omaha graduating with a bachelor’s degree in business accounting. During his time in college at a church social, he met a young woman, Gwendolyn Sonder, who would become his wife on November 23, 1962. They were married for nearly 63 years. They had a daughter and then several years later adopted a son to complete their family.

Glenn served his country with the Army Reserves, where he was honored as a Rifleman. After completion of his service time, Glenn worked for the Federal Internal Revenue Service as a field auditor until he retired in 1999. In retirement, he was always busy keeping abreast of investment strategies, tax laws, property management and the love for his 4 grandchildren, daughter and beloved wife.

Glenn’s legacy is one of kindness, compassion, strength, and inspiration. He is preceded in death by his parents, Samuel J. and Sarah (Gross) Hofer, and son, Craig Hofer.

He is survived by his wife, Gwendolyn; his daughter, Denise (Richard) Huckfeldt; grandchildren, Kevin, Christopher and Brittany Huckfeldt and Stella Hofer; brother, Lowell (Toni) Hofer; his sister, Elaine Westbrook; and 3 great-grandchildren. His memory will forever be cherished by friends, family, colleagues, and all whose lives he touched.

A Memorial Service to honor Glenn’s life will be held on Saturday, April 19, 2025, at 11 AM, at Wyuka Funeral Home 3600 “O” Street, Lincoln, NE and Inurnment at Fairview Cemetery, 8400 Adams Street, Lincoln, NE. Glenn’s Service will be livestreamed HERE. Due to licensing laws, the music will be muted.

Memorials may be donated to the family for future charitable donation.

May we find solace knowing that we will see Glenn again in his eternal glory. He will be fondly remembered, deeply missed and forever loved.

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Richard. A. Zimmerman https://www.wyuka.com/richard-a-zimmerman/ https://www.wyuka.com/richard-a-zimmerman/#comments Sun, 13 Apr 2025 21:33:19 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13382 Richard Allen Zimmerman, 82, of Lincoln, Nebraska, passed away on April 13, 2025, in Lincoln Nebraska. His devoted wife Connie and caring stepdaughter Carie were by his side as he peacefully passed in the early morning hours at his home. Born on July 1, 1942, in Tamaqua, Pennsylvania, Richard was the son of Nelson C. […]

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Richard Allen Zimmerman, 82, of Lincoln, Nebraska, passed away on April 13, 2025, in Lincoln Nebraska.

His devoted wife Connie and caring stepdaughter Carie were by his side as he peacefully passed in the early morning hours at his home.

Born on July 1, 1942, in Tamaqua, Pennsylvania, Richard was the son of Nelson C. Zimmerman and Verna Mildred Schock Zimmerman. Growing up on a dairy farm, milking twice a day, 7 days a week; there were no vacations. He developed a strong sense of duty and service that would shape the course of his life.

Richard proudly served his country in the United States Army for four years. He transferred to the Air National Guard and relocated to the Lincoln Air Force Base and came to Nebraska — a move that would change his life forever when he met Connie Bouges, who would become his devoted wife.

His military journey continued as a helicopter crew chief in the Army National Guard’s 24th Medical Unit. His commitment resulted in distinguished service during the Persian Gulf War in Desert Storm in 1991.

During his military service, Richard qualified as a sharpshooter in rifle and pistol. He traveled throughout the country competing in shooting matches. Utilizing only “Iron Sights” he excelled in these competitions.

E6 Staff Sergeant Richard Zimmerman honorably retired from the National Guard after 20+ years of military service.

In addition to military service, Richard built a long and industrious career marked by commitment and excellence. He worked for many years at Brunswick as a Quality Control Supervisor before taking on roles at Goodyear and later Molex, where he remained active well into his seventies. His work ethic was remarkable, and he took great pride in providing for his family.

Richard found joy not only in his work but also in the life he built with Connie. Together they created a warm and welcoming home where family always came first. He had a passion for classic cars and spent countless hours working on his custom ’67 Chevelle show car — a labor of love that brought him great satisfaction. He also enjoyed bowling shooting pool and darts on leagues over the years. He loved sitting in his man cave recliner with a cup of coffee reading the paper while looking out over his lawn and gardens while feeding and watching the birds and squirrels.

He is survived by his loving wife, Connie Bouges Zimmerman; daughters Cindy Curtis; Shelly Griffith; Carie Wilbur; and son-in-law Clark Griffith and sister Marlene Thomas Zimmerman. Richard left to the world a legacy of 8 grandchildren.

Richard was preceded in death by his son Rick Zimmerman; parents Nelson C. Zimmerman and Verna Mildred Schock Zimmerman; brother Barry Zimmerman; and former wife Marge Jensen Zimmerman.

A funeral service will be held on Friday, April 18, 2025, 10:30 AM at Wyuka Funeral Home and Cemetery, located at 3600 O Street, Lincoln. Viewing one hour prior to service. Interment with full Military Honors and a light lunch to follow. Memorials to the family for further designation.

Richard was devoted to his country, his work, and his loved ones. His memory will comfort those who knew him.

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Barbara A. Hanssen https://www.wyuka.com/barbara-a-hanssen/ https://www.wyuka.com/barbara-a-hanssen/#comments Fri, 11 Apr 2025 15:27:04 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13375 Barbara A. (Albright) Hanssen passed away on April 11, 2025, at the age of 77. She was born on July 5, 1947, to Clifford J. Sr. and Betty Albright. Barbara was born and raised in Lincoln. She graduated from Lincoln High School and continued her education later in life, graduating from the University of Nebraska […]

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Barbara A. (Albright) Hanssen passed away on April 11, 2025, at the age of 77. She was born on July 5, 1947, to Clifford J. Sr. and Betty Albright.

Barbara was born and raised in Lincoln. She graduated from Lincoln High School and continued her education later in life, graduating from the University of Nebraska with her bachelor’s degree in 2000.

She was a long-time member of First Presbyterian Church and was proud to be a part of the Stephen’s Ministry program.

She retired from Lincoln Water Department in 2002 and devoted her time to her grandchildren. She took countless trips with them to the Lincoln Children’s Zoo and the Children’s Museum. She enjoyed attending all their events, rarely missing a chance to cheer them on.

Barbara was an avid Husker fan and loved having student tickets to football during the national championship years of the 90s. She enjoyed attending men’s and women’s basketball games as a season ticket holder for many years.

She loved animals, especially her beloved beagle, Snoopy. He was the inspiration for acquiring a large collection of Snoopy Christmas ornaments.

Her hobbies included reading, walking, shopping and most of all, she loved spending time with her family. We are comforted by the fact that she has been reunited with her beloved parents, whom she has dearly missed.

She is survived by her husband, Donald; daughter, Christine (Ron) Synowicki; brother, Clifford Albright Jr.; grandson, Jacob Synowicki; stepchildren, Randall Hanssen and Kristin (Jason) Drake; step grandchildren, Brandon, Bryson, Bretton, and Braxton Cole. Preceded in death by her parents.

Funeral Service will be held at 10 a.m., Wednesday April 16, 2025, at American Lutheran Church, 4200 Vine Street, Lincoln, NE 68503. Interment to follow at Wyuka Cemetery, Lincoln.

Memorials may be donated to the Alzheimer’s Association HERE or to American Lutheran Church HERE .

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Supporting Children Through Loss: A Guide for Parents https://www.wyuka.com/supporting-children-through-loss-a-guide-for-parents/ https://www.wyuka.com/supporting-children-through-loss-a-guide-for-parents/#respond Sat, 05 Apr 2025 21:10:54 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13406 The loss of a loved one is a profound moment that can be difficult for anyone to endure, especially children. Helping a grieving child requires patience, understanding, and guidance as they process emotions they may not yet fully understand. This guide aims to provide parents, educators, and caregivers with practical advice on supporting children through […]

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The loss of a loved one is a profound moment that can be difficult for anyone to endure, especially children. Helping a grieving child requires patience, understanding, and guidance as they process emotions they may not yet fully understand. This guide aims to provide parents, educators, and caregivers with practical advice on supporting children through their grief.

At Wyuka Funeral Home & Cemetery, we believe in helping families not only honor loved ones but also find ways to heal together. If you’re navigating childhood grief in your family, this guide is here to offer support and understanding.

Understanding Childhood Grief

Children Express Grief Differently 

Every child experiences grief uniquely. Their feelings may be expressed in a variety of ways, whether through sadness, anger, confusion, or even physical symptoms like stomachaches or trouble sleeping. Some children may seem unaffected initially and process their emotions later through questions or spontaneous sadness.

Age Matters 

Grieving behaviors and responses often correlate with a child’s age. Young children may not fully understand the permanence of death, while older children and teenagers may struggle more with existential questions or feelings of isolation. Recognizing their developmental stage is key to understanding their needs.

How to Support Grieving Children

  1. Create an Open Environment for Communication 

When a loved one passes away, children may sense the tension around them. They need a safe space where they feel comfortable asking questions and expressing their emotions. Use clear, age-appropriate language when discussing death. For example:

  • Instead of saying, “They’ve gone to sleep,” explain that death means the person’s body has stopped working.
  • Encourage questions and be honest, even if the answer is, “I don’t know.”
  1. Acknowledge Their Feelings 

Reassure your child that all their emotions—whether it’s sadness, fear, anger, or even relief—are valid. Avoid phrases like “Be brave” or “Don’t cry.” Instead, say, “It’s okay to feel the way you do,” or reflect on their emotions by observing, “You seem upset today; do you want to talk about it?”

  1. Maintain Routines for Stability 

Children often find comfort in familiar routines. While it’s important to acknowledge the change that grief brings, maintaining day-to-day activities (such as mealtimes, school, or hobbies) helps them feel grounded and secure.

  1. Introduce Ways to Express Grief 

Some children may struggle to articulate their feelings, but creative outlets can help. Encourage drawing, journaling, or writing letters to the loved one they’ve lost. These activities allow them to process their emotions in a safe and constructive way.

  1. Be Mindful of Your Own Grief 

Children look to adults for cues on how to cope. Sharing your feelings, within reason, can help normalize the experience of grief and show that it’s okay to be vulnerable. However, be mindful not to overwhelm them with adult-sized grief—create balance by ensuring they feel emotionally supported.

  1. Seek External Support When Needed 

Sometimes, a child’s grief may require additional support beyond what you can provide. Watch for prolonged changes in behavior, withdrawal, or trouble coping with daily life. Professional grief counselors or support groups can provide children and families with tools to manage their emotions. Wyuka offers grief support resources to help families during these times—visit us online at Wyuka.com or call us at 402-474-3600 for more information.

The Importance of Memorializing the Loved One

Encourage children to be involved in remembering the loved one who has passed. It could be as simple as crafting a memory box, planting a tree, or lighting a candle during special occasions. Memorialization helps children maintain a connection to the person they’ve lost while finding comfort and meaning in honoring their memory.

Building a Community Around Loss

Loss can feel isolating, but it’s important for children to understand they are not alone. Utilize your community—whether it’s family, friends, teachers, or faith groups—to provide extra support. Sometimes, speaking with peers who have had similar experiences, such as in a grief support program, offers a sense of belonging that fosters healing.

At Wyuka Funeral Home & Cemetery, we emphasize the value of coming together as a community during times of loss. We’re here to provide guidance, comfort, and support every step of the way.

Final Thoughts

Helping a grieving child may feel like an overwhelming responsibility, but your compassion and presence make a world of difference. Whether it’s through talking openly, creating healing rituals, or simply listening, you’re giving them the tools to process their feelings and move forward while cherishing their loved one’s memory.

For more grief support resources, help with funeral planning, or guidance on navigating loss, visit us online at Wyuka.com or call us directly at 402-474-3600. You are not alone—together, we can find a path forward.

 

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Thomas “Tom” Ray Keith https://www.wyuka.com/thomas-tom-ray-keith/ https://www.wyuka.com/thomas-tom-ray-keith/#respond Wed, 02 Apr 2025 14:59:46 +0000 https://www.wyuka.com/?p=13370 Thomas Ray Keith February 13, 1943 – April 2, 2025 Tom Keith, husband, father, brother and friend joined our Lord and Savior on April 2, 2025. He was 82. Tom was born in Ft. Riley, Kansas on February 13, 1943. He attended grade school and middle school in Lincoln and graduated from Lincoln Southeast High […]

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Thomas Ray Keith
February 13, 1943 – April 2, 2025

Tom Keith, husband, father, brother and friend joined our Lord and Savior on April 2, 2025. He was 82. Tom was born in Ft. Riley, Kansas on February 13, 1943. He attended grade school and middle school in Lincoln and graduated from Lincoln Southeast High School. Cherishing his memory are his loving wife, Maggie; children, James & Coralyn Keith and Rebecca Keith; granddaughter, Terra Keith; and sisters, Jo Quay & Richard Larson and Kathy Quay Ricker. Tom was preceded in death by his mother, Dorothy Dworak Quay; step-father, Quentin Q. Quay; father, Richard O. Keith; grandparents; and sister, Patti Quay Johnson.

Tom attended the University of Nebraska and was a die-hard Corn Husker! He was a journalist for the Lincoln Journal Star Newspaper, and an officer for the Lincoln Police Department, the Beatrice Police Department and the University of Nebraska Police department. Tom had a love of writing and wrote articles for many national hunting and fishing magazines, in addition to writing a book on fly fishing and fly tying. He enjoyed teaching classes and sharing his knowledge of fly tying with others. He retired from the Nebraska Game and Parks Commission in 2008. He loved the outdoors and spent a lot of his time hunting and fishing.

Tom had a great sense of humor, loved music (especially Elvis), his family and friends. Most of all he loved spending time with his wife and their many animals.

Tom will be remembered at a Celebration of Life this fall.

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