https://www.wyuka.com/how-to-grieve-multiple-deaths/ A Place of Rest Thu, 19 Feb 2026 00:01:13 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 https://www.wyuka.com/how-to-grieve-multiple-deaths/#comment-20014 Thu, 19 Feb 2026 00:01:13 +0000 https://wyuka.com/?p=10949#comment-20014 I lost my first granddaughter 4 yrs ago. After that I lost my first husband. My 2nd husband passed away a year ago. On Jan 2nd of 2026, I lost my 2nd granddaughter who was 21 with an amazing future ahead of her. My last and only granddaughter moved in with me after my 2nd husband passed. She’s 15 and has been greatly affected by all these deaths. Especially her cousin who just passed. Almost 2 yrs ago my mother lied about me so that she could cut me out of my father’s life. That was like having another death to deal with. She did this 2 months after my 2nd husband died on his birthday. I’m not making this up.

]]> https://www.wyuka.com/how-to-grieve-multiple-deaths/#comment-19708 Sun, 14 Sep 2025 07:00:15 +0000 https://wyuka.com/?p=10949#comment-19708 I have times I’m okay, but then I go back into severe grief. Each time i revert back is worse than the last episode. My first loss was a great friend of mine. She had been ill for a year. I did everything I could to make her life less difficult She wasn’t feeling well one day. So I went to check on her. I found her settin at the table with a cup of coffee. He passed away sitting at the table. That was traumatic for me for a long while. I then lost my precious Chihuahua of 15 years. He was all I had. I rescued a little female Chihuahua. She had loads of problems. But I fought hard to save her. She passed away in March 2024. I had lost my baby sister January 1 2024. She passed away from cancer. She lived for two weeks after her diagnosis. While I was digging the grave for my baby girl Chihuahua , I received a call that my brother had been in a bicycle accident. He passed away from his injuries the next day. In May I received a call that my oldest sister had terminal cancer. She passed away in July 2024. My Mother 95 passed away in June of 2024. Two of my best friends passed away in 2024. It feels like my heart has jumped out of my body. I just can’t process all this. I’m just sad I can’t feel happiness. I don’t have feelings for anything.

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